Question 1:
What is the conflict about? What was the trigger event? How has the conflict been expressed?

Question 2:
What binds the parties together? In what ways each party needs the other?

Question 3:
What are the parties not getting?

Question 4:
What are the perceived scarce resources? (e.g. time, money, affection, inclusion, etc.)

Question 5:
In what ways each party is interfering with the other’s goals?